Dating Tips For Men - Keeping That Girl
Most men do not find it hard to meet women and begin dating them. The problem is that once they reel them in, they can’t seem to keep them. This is usually due to the man acting too clingy or desperate for her and she then becomes bored. There are a few rules to dating that every man should follow to not only find that date, but keep her interested.
Learn how to become an attentive listener. Nothing ruins a relationship than someone not listening to what the other person is saying. The key to this is to really zone in on what she is saying and give her frequent head nods or verbal sounds that lets her know you are getting what she is saying. Ask her questions or have her elaborate on cetain things she has said to show your interest in her words. Lean in slightly when listening to show you are captivated with what she is saying.
Show her you are confident in yourself. This is not the same as having lots of money or power or because you have a job which enables you to play with medical supplies all day. Just act confident in yourself by smiling, speaking up and by doing things a little out of the ordinary.
Prepare for your dates by giving yourself the proper grooming. Give yourself a clean shave and add a nice smelling cologne. Just as important as your own looks, so is your car and apartment. Make sure that both are tidy and smelling good.
Give her a slight challenge. Do not make yourself too available for her. Break a date every once in a while. Do not answer your phone every time she calls or go out and make plans with your friends instead of her. Being too available and clingy turns a women off.
These are just some of the things you can do to not only find a date, but keep her interested in you and always wanting more.
posted by MTaylor @ 8:46 AM
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3 Comments:
I have to agree with you, but sometimes guys fall tooo deeply into this kind of games, so much that they lose the girl... I mean they become dickheads! Excuse my term, but they do: you try to be nice and meet them half a way so they feel appreciated, and thet sse ur interested but they behave just too cool for school...I felt like sometimes I looked uninterested so I started showing more attention, but there is no way out!
Yeah, perfect grooming is important, just like preparing your car and apartment. Uhm... I think it's a bit unfair for a woman if you don't answer her calls. You will only make her worry about you, and that can be a reason for her to feel bad about a relationship and break up with you. Just answer her call. If you really want her to be challenged, don't text her a lot.
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