Tuesday, July 20, 2010

The percentage secret to keeping a girl!

Yeah we all know getting a girl can be hard. The biggest attractor to getting a girl is, and has always been, confidence.

The issue is often keeping that girl and not only keeping her but making sure you are the one wearing the trousers. This isn’t about power in the relationship however, oh no, it is about keeping her interested in you.

This is where you need to start thinking percentage investment and where we need to think about cars.

Pick a car, it matters not so much which, the Ford Focus STI will do. Fast, fun and frenetic. You just spent your annual salary on one and trust me that baby is getting looked after like she is a princess. Or maybe your rich uncle bought you it and told you to have fun. So it gets dirty and the alloys get scratched... hey who cares it was free right?

And there is the point. Same car but one of them you invested in and the other you got given.

Now let us transpose that to your new girlfriend. You’re the car she is the driver. You hand yourself over for free, make yourself available all the time, pay for everything, she has full access to your Credit Card APR etc, hmmm suddenly she is not so concerned whether you are avilable Friday or not. However if you make her invest in you then suddenly you will find the love and affection coming thick and fast.

So how exactly to do that?

You tried not answering that call? Maybe Friday you can’t make it as you have a night out with the guys? You’d absolutley love to go to the cinema Wednesday but you have a Thai boxing lesson. In a nutshell... let them do the work. Don’t be an idiot about it but just ensure the balance of the investment in the relationship is 60:40 in your favour and you’ll suddenly find the days of high maintenance girlfriends are behind you.

Have fun!

1 Comments:

At 1:46 PM, Blogger Minoccio said...

As a woman, I have to admit that this is very true.

 

Post a Comment

<< Home