The Secret of Attracting The Ladies...
I have always been very popular with the ladies. This gets a couple of different reactions from my friends. The first of these is that they are constantly asking me for advice. How is it that I always manage to have a beautiful woman to keep me company? What is it that is so special about me? After all, I am not exactly an oil painting.
The other reaction that I get is amusement. Some of my friends actually called me ‘the stud’ because of my continual success with the opposite sex. I think that this must be a type of thinly veiled embarrassment or jealousy...
So, what is my big secret? How do I do it? Most men would give their right arm to be able to go out on dates with a succession of beautiful women. Will, like most things, a lot of it just boils down to common sense. What is it that a woman wants in a man? Once you know the answer to this then it is all very simple.
Women want a man who is strong, but I am not talking about impressing them with caveman behaviour. When I say strong, I mean in character. Be confident but don’t overdo it; there is a fine line between confidence and cockiness. And be mature. If a woman sees you messing around with your friends at the pub then she will find it a big turn-off. If she was on the lookout for a child then she wouldn’t be surrounded by adults! Women like to have a bit of fun only not to the extreme.
But the thing that I see as being paramount is politeness. It may be the twenty-first century but a woman still likes it when you behave like a gentleman. Make her feel special and treat her with respect. If you can manage to do these things and to balance them out correctly then you should see success!
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2 Comments:
I think you are totally right. I would add one other thing though, woman like men who ask questions and are genuinely interested in them and what they think. I have been on so many dates where the man goes on and on about himself or the other extreme - they don't talk at all. It's really off putting. Being able to LISTEN and to participate in conversation even if it doesn't totally interest you is really important.
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